Thanks all of you for your kind messages and have a lovely weekend. Keep writing - spell check does get there in the end. I find that if I also use it with the the one that gives us other meanings to words - I get there in the end. Ignore those who put you down or make you feel small. You have the courage to be yourself and over the years things do get better. I still try and learn new words everyday. This piece has been checked 3 times and now I hope it is good to go!